Every time an agent walks into a listing appointment and starts rattling off their services, they hand the seller a reason to negotiate their fee.
We worked through this in the BAMx Roleplay Mastermind this week, and it’s one of the most common ways agents lose control of a presentation before it even gets going.
The fix isn’t a better pitch. It’s a better question.
Why Listing Your Services Invites the Fee Objection
Most agents default to a features list because it feels organized and confident. You walk in, you cover your photography, your video, your floor plan, your marketing reach, and you wait for the seller to be impressed.
The problem is the agent before you said the same thing. So will the one after you.
When everything sounds similar, sellers conclude that the service is a commodity, and the only thing left to evaluate is price. That’s the moment you lose the conversation, and you did it to yourself before the seller said a word.
The move is to get into question mode. The right question reframes the entire appointment before you ever get to deliverables.
The Question That Changes the Whole Appointment
In the BAMx Role Play Mastermind this week, Tom Toole offered one of the best ways to get out of features-list mode before you ever get there. Before you say a word about what you do, ask the seller this:
“Who do you think the likely buyer is for this home?”
That’s it. Let them answer.
This question shifts the seller’s thinking away from comparing agents and toward their actual goal, which is finding the right buyer.
It also signals you’ve already been thinking about their specific situation before you walked through the door.
Once they answer, here’s how to frame the transition into the data:
“The good news is I know everything about the buyer except their name. And here are three data points we use to target those folks, because your home’s not going to be for everybody.”
From here, everything you present connects back to a real person with real characteristics. You’re building a buyer profile together, and the seller is part of the process.
The Three Data Points That Define the Likely Buyer
Most sellers have never thought about their buyer this specifically. Walking them through these three data points before you ever mention a deliverable puts you in a completely different category than every other agent they’ve met with.
Here’s how to walk through it:
“So, one, according to the National Association of Realtors, 68% of people who bought a home last year moved within seven miles of their current location. So they’re local on some level. And here’s what we see with the trends locally.
Two, we talked about the price of your home at $800,000. What we know is that people typically buy a home that’s going to be about four times their annual income. That means the likely buyer is going to make about $200,000 a year just to get in the door and qualify.
Three, typically there’s going to be a life event that triggers a move. Whether it’s a baby, downsizing, a divorce, a new job. Think about it. The buyer is probably a lot like you were when you moved into the property.
So now we’ve got these data points. And here’s our plan to leverage them to find the right buyer for your home.”
Then land it with this:
“Getting your home on the internet is not a strategy. Anyone can do that. If that’s what I’m telling you I’m doing, you should probably just go hire somebody else. I’m going to give you targeted marketing techniques.”
That line resets the entire conversation. You’re telling the seller exactly what separates a real marketing plan from an agent who just puts a sign in the yard and hopes for the best.
Why Most Agents Give Away Their Separation Before They Ever Get to Marketing
Once you’ve walked the seller through the buyer profile, you’re in a completely different position when the conversation turns to marketing.
And this is where most agents give away the separation they just earned.
The competing agent said they’re doing video. Great. So are you. Here’s the question that exposes the difference:
“Have they walked you through how they’re going to create buyer demand outside of the buyers who already have a search set up for this home by leveraging the listing video?”
Let them answer. If the other agent didn’t walk them through that, you don’t need to say another word about the competition. The gap speaks for itself.
Then, use a script like this to walk them through how it actually works:
“Our listing video ads are going to run two sets of ads. One for all of the buyers in our database, two for the buyers who are clicking over the last 30 days in this town and the surrounding 15 minutes to draw them in to your home.
“Now, most agents shoot a video, they post it on their Instagram. About 5% of their average audience, which is 200 followers, is actually going to consume that video. Probably mom. Probably dad. Are you trying to sell to your agent’s family, or are you trying to use the listing video to attract buyers who are clicking on Realtor.com and Zillow.com today?”
Am I going to post it on Instagram? Yeah. But that’s like the fourth level of why we’re shooting a video. It all starts with the ad.
Walk into your next listing appointment and ask one question before you say a word about what you do. The entire dynamic shifts. The seller stops comparing you to every other agent they’ve met with and starts thinking about their buyer. That’s where you want them.
The scripts are here. The data is here. The only thing left is to use it.
If you want to go deeper on listing presentation strategy and work through your own scenarios live, that’s exactly what we do inside BAMx.
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