Co-Buying, Compromises, and Home Tour Burnout: 2023 First-Time Homebuyers

Opendoor has released the third edition of its First-Time Homebuyer Report, offering real estate agents a detailed glimpse into the realities faced by today’s first-time buyers, including co-buying trends and home tour burnout.
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  • Opendoor has released the third edition of its First-Time Homebuyer Report, offering real estate agents a detailed glimpse into the realities faced by today’s first-time buyers, including co-buying trends and home tour burnout. 

More than three-quarters of today’s first-time homebuyers are making their first home purchase with a co-buyer. And about a third are co-buying with a parent, friend, or sibling. 

That’s according to Opendoor’s third edition of its First-Time Homebuyer Report, released on March 5, 2024. Thanks to ongoing challenges with housing affordability, co-buying has become fairly common among first-time homebuyers. 

First-time buyers are purchasing homes—

  • With a spouse/partner: 61%
  • On their own: 23%
  • With parents: 16%
  • With friends: 11%
  • With siblings: 7%

First-time buyers who were co-buying with friends tended to tour 20-plus homes (45%) and to argue with their co-buyer about what home to buy (49%). 

2023 brought a 35% increase in the number of first-time buyers purchasing a home on their own, but the co-buying trend is growing. More than one in ten first-time homebuyers co-purchased a home with a friend (11%). And the majority of these were men (62%). 

Read on for more. 

Hurdles and delays for prospective first-time buyers in 2023

Financial hurdles are the main reason co-buying has gotten more popular among first-time homebuyers, and they continue to steer buyer decisions. 

When it came to delaying a home purchase, money (or the lack thereof) was most often the reason, as 53% put off a home purchase for financial reasons:

  • 42% weren’t financially ready
  • 32% were waiting for a drop in mortgage rates

Family and friends also played a role in delaying home purchases, with 22% of first-time buyers putting their plans on hold for family-related reasons and 18% holding off because of their relationship status. 

Pressure and compromises for first-time buyers in 2023

Nearly nine out of ten first-time buyers (88%) are making compromises with their home purchasing decisions. Most often those compromises involve money, with 43% of respondents saying they paid more for their home than they wanted. 

Home purchases came with revised expectations for many first-time homebuyers:

  • 32% didn’t buy in the area they wanted
  • 28% didn’t get all the home features they were hoping for
  • 22% bought a smaller home than they originally wanted

Nine out of 10 first-time buyers felt pushed into moving quickly with a home purchase due to fear of missing out (FOMO), with 42% feeling that pressure internally, 24% feeling rushed by their agent, and 21% feeling under pressure from their co-buyer. 

Among those who made their first home purchase in 2023, nearly a third (31%) believe they could have found an even better place if they’d kept looking—the same percentage as in 2022.

Sixty-five percent questioned whether it was all worth it, while 27% were just relieved when the whole process was over. 

House tour burnout is real

Home tours can be a big help when shopping for a new home. But too many tours can lead to burnout and decision paralysis. 

On average, first-time homebuyers in 2023 toured 23 homes—virtually or in person—which is close to the 24 homes toured the previous year. 

Gen Z stood out from the pack by touring an average of 32 homes in 2023—45% more than Millennials, who toured an average of 22 homes, and 60% more than Gen X (20 homes). 

First-time homebuyers’ main motivators

Based on Opendoor’s survey, first-time homebuyers are driven primarily by these four things:

  1. Stability and peace of mind from owning rather than renting (44%)
  2. More space (43%)
  3. Investment opportunities (41%)
  4. Starting a family (23%)

All the above is worth keeping in mind when you’re working with first-time homebuyers. To learn more, read Opendoor’s full downloadable report

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About the Author

Sarah Lentz started writing for BAM in late May of 2022 and quickly realized she was exactly where she wanted to be (and still is). Before BAM, she worked as a freelance writer. She lives in Minnesota with her four kids and, in her free time, is writing her next book.

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