Key Details:
- According to Anytime Estimate, 82% of Americans say having good neighbors matters as much as price or location when buying a home.
- Nearly half of homeowners have spent money on neighbor-related issues, and 19% would pay $10,000 or more above asking price to avoid bad neighbors.
- The report also found 63% say HOAs cause more conflict than they solve, and 73% of Gen Z would use AI to vet potential neighbors.
Sometimes the problem isn’t the house. It’s the people next door.
According to a new survey from Anytime Estimate, 82% of Americans say having good neighbors is just as important as price or location when buying a home.
In other words, the people within shouting distance can sway a buyer’s decision as much as a mortgage rate or a kitchen remodel.
So, before a buyer falls in love with a listing, they’re already judging the neighborhood. Here’s what that really means.
What Buyers Consider Dealbreakers
Most Americans want to live in peace, and they’re willing to pay for it. About 1 in 5 (19%) say they’d spend $10,000 or more above asking price if they knew they wouldn’t have bad neighbors. Another 12% would go as high as $20,000.
Nearly one in five (19%) would pay $10,000 to never interact with neighbors. About one in eight (13%) would pay twice that.
That tells you everything about how much noise, conflict, or general chaos can devalue a property.
When it comes to what turns buyers off, 89% say frequent yelling or fighting next door would bother them, and 88% say it would be a dealbreaker. The same goes for barking dogs (84%) or a neighbor who likes to walk around “inappropriately dressed” (82%).
And while politics have become a growing flashpoint, the lines are clear:
- 57% say a Confederate flag is a dealbreaker.
- 47% say the same about a Trump or MAGA flag.
- 36% would object to a Black Lives Matter sign.
- 33% would walk away over a Pride flag.
Buyers may say they want diversity and freedom of expression, but they also want quiet, order, and predictability when it comes to their living environment.
Good Neighbors vs. Bad Neighbors
Nearly everyone believes they’re a good neighbor, with 90% saying so, but that confidence doesn’t go both ways. More than half of Americans (56%) have some kind of complaint about their neighbors, and 49% say a neighbor has done something “bad” to them in the past.
Only 16% describe their neighbors as bad, but the list of grievances is long:
- 33% cite noise issues.
- 22% mention parking problems, pet issues, or junk around the yard.
- 21% say their neighbors are nosy or intrusive.
- 19% call them rude.
And for some, it’s more serious. About 20% say they’ve been harassed or bullied by a neighbor. Another 18% report property damage or police involvement, and 13% have endured racist or threatening behavior.
The Financial Cost of Bad Neighbors
Bad neighbors don’t just stress people out. They can cost real money. Nearly half of homeowners (49%) say they’ve spent money dealing with neighbor-related problems, including landscaping, legal fees, or repairs.
A quarter have spent $1,000 or more, and 12% have spent over $5,000. More than 1 in 8 (13%) believe their neighbors or neighboring homes could hurt their ability to sell, potentially knocking tens of thousands off the sale price.
Buyers are taking note. Forty-five percent of Americans say they’d move if they didn’t like their neighbors, and 26% have seriously considered it.
Generational Divide: Boomers Still Believe in Borrowing Sugar
Generational differences run deep when it comes to neighbor relations.
Boomers are far more likely to say they have friendly relationships with neighbors (71%) than Gen Z (49%). They’re also much more likely to know their neighbors’ names and to have them over socially.
Meanwhile, 40% of Gen Z say they live in “judgmental neighborhoods,” compared to just 13% of boomers. Nearly half of Gen Z (44%) admit to hiding their political views from neighbors, and 42% have even lied to avoid socializing.
Younger generations are also less optimistic about neighborly friendliness overall. 53% of millennials and 52% of Gen Z say it’s normal or common to dislike their neighbors, compared to just 34% of boomers.
Homeowners vs. Renters: Two Different Worlds
Relationships between neighbors look very different depending on whether someone owns or rents.
- 94% of homeowners know at least some of their neighbors’ names, compared to 77% of renters.
- 78% of owners trust neighbors to watch their homes while they’re away, versus 59% of renters.
- 62% of owners would hand over a house key, while only 44% of renters would.
- 43% of owners describe their neighbors as helpful, compared to 30% of renters.
That familiarity might explain why homeowners are more likely to call themselves good neighbors and less likely to describe others as rude, loud, or “weird.”
The HOA Effect
More than 1 in 4 homeowners (28%) live in an HOA community, but most Americans aren’t sold on the idea. Nearly two-thirds (63%) think HOAs create more problems than they solve, and 74% wouldn’t pay a dollar more to live in one.
(Honestly, if the HOA did the yardwork and shoveling, I would 100% pay for that.)
Still, those who do belong tend to see the value. 67% of HOA residents think their association helps keep things orderly and maintains property values.
When Technology Meets the Neighborhood Fence
Younger buyers are already thinking about how to avoid bad neighbors before moving in.
About 73% of Gen Z and 58% of millennials say they’d use an AI tool that predicts how compatible they’d be with neighbors, based on shared values, privacy preferences, and potential for conflict.
Only 25% of boomers say they’d use such a tool, though they might change their minds after one too many late-night fireworks.
The way buyers view community dynamics is changing, and so is the value they assign to neighborhood harmony.
Whether it’s barking dogs, HOA disputes, or political yard signs, these aren’t small factors. They’re influencing move decisions, driving pricing psychology, and shaping the meaning of “location” in 2025.
The bottom line is that neighborhood vibes matter. Buyers want data, but they also want peace and predictability. Helping clients understand the full picture of a community, from noise levels to HOA sentiment, can turn a potential dealbreaker into an opportunity for connection and trust.





